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About a month ago I was sent a “L’oreal Paris #hairexpertise VoxBox from Influenster to try out for free and give my opinion on. I was lucky enough to get selected for the Nutri-Gloss Luminizer line, which is the one I wanted because my hair is pretty dull.
In the box was the shampoo, conditioner, and the High Shine Glossing Mist.
The shampoo worked good. My hair felt nice and clean after using it. The conditioner rinsed clean and left my hair feeling soft and shinier. Both the shampoo and conditioner smelled very nice.
My favourite out of all of the products was the glossing mist. When first applied, it left my hair looking somewhat greasy and then it quickly absorbed and left my hair looking nice and shiny.
Since using the products though, I have started breaking out around the back of my neck. When I stopped using the products, the breakouts started to go away. I’m going to start adding the products back in one at a time to see if it is just one or all of the them that has been causing it. I am hoping it isn’t the glossing mist, since I really like that one and think it works great.
Have you tried any of these products? How about any of the other #hairexpertise lines? If so, let me know! I’d love to hear how they worked for you.
*disclaimer: I received these products for free from Influenster. All opinions expressed are my own.
A few weeks ago I was sent the Lise Watier HydraForce Hydra-Protective Comforting Crème to try out from Glam Sense in exchange for my honest review. It came with a numeric corneometer that you can use with your smartphone to detect your skin’s current moisture levels so you can monitor the effectiveness of the product.
Unfortunately, I was unsuccessful at getting the Hydra-Detect application and device to do a reading on my iPhone. Hopefully it is an issue that will be resolved in the future because I think it is a neat idea to be able to check the moisture levels.
The cream is very nicely scented. It goes on really well and leaves my skin feeling really hydrated, but I find that it doesn’t absorb as well as I would like. I have normal to combination skin and have some areas that have been feeling parched, but it was still a little too heavy for my skin. I had to blot the excess off whenever I used it. A few days after using it, I noticed I was getting some minor breakouts and the only thing that I have changed in my routine is this cream
So sadly, this cream didn’t work for me. I think the gel formulation may be best suited for my skin. If you are someone who has severely dry skin, I think it may work great for you.
I know it has been a while since I posted last. I’ve been pretty much hibernating during the colder months 🙂 I ended up getting pretty bad SAD this winter and didn’t have much of an interest in anything.
Now that it is spring and the clocks have gone ahead, I have started feeling a little better.
My son has finally had his autism clinic. He managed to get in a few months early due to a cancellation. Results were not what we expected. He meets the criteria for diagnosis but they are holding off a diagnosis because they noticed odd behaviours during the assessment and want him to see a neuropsychologist and a neurologist to rule out other factors that may be mimicking autism before they make the diagnosis. Understandable…but without the diagnosis, we get no help at school. Without help it is a full time job of having to make sure he doesn’t fall behind. It will be many months before he will get refferals and see specialists.
BUT…the school counselor understands our concerns and has a meeting set up to see if she can get him the help without the diagnosis. He is now starting to get occupational therapy and is back on the waiting list for counselling. So things are starting to come together.
As for myself, I’ve been back to working out consistently for the last 8 weeks. I just finished Fitness Blender’s 8 week FBFit and will be starting FBBooty and FBAbs on Monday. I’m excited. I’ve gained weight over the winter. More than I am comfortable with. I am looking forward to dropping that and getting more active this summer.
So that is about all for now. Just thought I would make a post with a quick update.
Hi everyone! It’s been a while since I posted and thought I just give a little update on my son.
Not a whole lot has changed since his Asperger’s diagnosis. He was also diagnosed with a dust mite and cat/feather allergy, but this was something we had suspected since it started about a year ago…yes, it had taken that long to get an allergy test done. He was a little nervous about this since we have 3 cats that he adores and worried that we would have to give them away, but the doctor said there was no need with a daily allergy pill.
We are still waiting on the Special Services at school to come up with IEP, it is slower than I’d like, but he has been doing well enough in school despite it. His marks are a little lower in areas that he struggles with, mostly language arts and anywhere else he has to participate as a group. He is really good at math, but at first struggled with Algebra since most of the that was written instructions which he has a hard time with. Since I helped him understand how it worked (I’m ashamed to say I had to re-learn it first LOL) he has been getting good marks.
He has been doing well in his distance “therapy”. He struggles with some of the work because it is more suited for NT children. He has anxiety but has a hard time with describing it or telling us reasons or causes for it. Many of our questions are answered with “I don’t know!”. It is pretty frustrating. I think most of his issue is with his self esteem and confidence, which this program doesn’t seem to address, but I’ve been trying to help him with that myself. He has joined the cadet program and faced one of his biggest challenges and fears, which was marching in parade night. He has so many fears of messing up or being inspected. As a mother who struggles with the same fears, I find this to be overwhelming for me as I feel a lot of empathy and fear for him at the same time.
So much of life has taken me away from a lot of what I enjoy doing. I’ve been slack with my fitness routine. I haven’t been blogging as much as I’d like. I feel a little overwhelmed and down lately, but thing seem to be falling into place as time goes on. I’ve been writing down 5 things I am grateful for each day and it helps take a lot of the focus off the negative and put it on the positive. It really makes you realize that there are so many little things that we have and experience that we take for granted. 🙂
So that is it. Not a whole lot of change but things are starting to look up.
Thanks for reading!
My son had his doctor’s appointment last week with the psychiatrist. I didn’t go, doctors offices are still one part of agoraphobia that I can’t seem to shake.
When we had made an appointment with the doctor for him to be accessed for Aspergers, the doctor was doubtful and said she didn’t think he had it. I can understand that, he is a pretty quiet child that doesn’t talk much in social settings so I can see why it would be hard for her or for his teachers to notice it. Heck, while I always had a bit of suspicion about it, I was even doubtful because the symptoms were very subtle.
Instead I getting a check list and checking off what I think were his “symptoms”, I made a list of the traits he displays and gave examples. The doctor was appreciative of this and after reading that and asking him and my husband some questions, she had no doubt that he had Aspergers. She official diagnosed him so that he could get immediate help at school. Normally he would go for further testing, which he will eventually, but that could take up to a year for it to happen.
Even though I had known he had Aspergers for a few weeks now, and I originally was relieved at finally having a cause of all the issues he was having, the diagnosis hit me hard. In the back of my mind I had a little bit of denial, a little bit of hope that I was wrong.
I would see pictures of him as a little boy with a big smile on his face, so full of energy and happiness. So outgoing. He had a smile that would light up a room. It is so different from how he is now. A smile or a conversation is so rare. I feel like I have a totally different child. I went from being someone who he once enjoyed to what seems to be an annoyance that he has to deal with when he wants food.
I hate being so negative about this, but it hurts. It hurts me that he has struggled in the past and no one understood him when he said he just didn’t understand things or believed him when he said he really tried. It hurts me that he will continue to struggle. I know he isn’t broken, stupid, or wrong. He is just different and it is okay to be different. I know things will get better. I know he will start getting the help he needs, or at-least I hope he will.
I’m left feeling sad, worried, anxious, hopeless, frustrated, and lonely. I find it hard to get things done. I haven’t been consistent with my workouts or with housework. I’ve been keeping pretty quiet. I am taking the time to de-stress for both myself and my family.
Instead of making this all negative, I want to mention some of his recent accomplishments. I’ve been using some CBT steps with him to set goals. He went to a convenience store checkout alone while my husband was at a distance. This is a big step for him. He also went to Army Cadets 4 times and really enjoyed himself. He has yet to do a “parade night” where he has to march and wear a uniform (this is what he dreads) but we will find out next week how he does. Yesterday he ran 1km in just under 8 minutes. So proud! They may seem small, but for a boy who is afraid of people, keeps to himself and doesn’t venture out to far, this is huge.
For parents of kids on the spectrum, how did you handle the diagnosis? Did you have a hard time with it? Any tips for me for coping, for resources, or any positive stories on yourself or your children dealing with Aspergers? For parents or for aspies, what was the higher grades like in school? Another post full of questions 🙂 Thank you all for reading!
School season has always brought on a lot of anxiety for me. Not only is it cold, flu, and stomach bug season (which is pretty scary for an emetophobe!) but it also brings on a lot of anxiety for me when it comes to my youngest son who seems to struggle in school.
My 12 year old son had been diagnosed with social anxiety last year. He had been prescribed Prozac by the child psychiatrist to help aid him with therapy. I was reluctant to let him try it. Eventually I gave in, and he did well on it for a few months. Nearly a year went by with him being on the therapy wait list and the medication was no longer doing anything for him, except causing him to gain weight. The therapist he is supposed to see recommended he try a new type of therapy that is home based and done through sessions over the phone. We decided to try it.
I gave my son the material to look at in preparation for his upcoming sessions. I asked him about it a few days later and he teared up and said that he didn’t understand any of it. None of it. He said he doesn’t know what anxiety is, and when I explained it he said he didn’t get anything like that. He just has trouble with with talking to people and such.
To make a long story short, I ended up doing a bit of research with the “symptoms” he displays. It led me to many articles on Aspergers which shocked me when I read them, because he has most of the signs. I actually do too. I showed my husband and he agreed that he seemed to be a match. We are now waiting to see the psychiatrist to be evaluated.
I am terrified over this.I feel so lost and feel like I don’t know what to do or where to start. I’ve read all I can about Aspergers. I know individuals who have it are high functioning and lead a somewhat normal life. My issue is with the school and health care systems in my area. He will most likely be put back on a waiting list for any type of therapy. The school here was of no help at all when it came to social anxiety, and I’m thinking they won’t be much help if he does get an Aspergers diagnosis. A family member of mine who is a teacher’s aid at a school here said she believes the school will not offer help unless the child is medicated. He needs the help. He has a hard time with instructions, organization, directions, motor skill and writing.
I really do not want my son to be on medication. Not right now anyways. Right now it isn’t helping him at all. He is gaining weight despite watching his calories and getting him active. I don’t want him to gain so much that it affects his self esteem. He was also prescribed a ADD medication which the doctor says should help counter the weight gain since it will cause him to lose his appetite. I don’t want this to be the solution.
Anyways, that is that. I’m sorry if my thoughts are all over the place. I’m just trying to make sense of everything that is in my head. I have so much to write but my brain is working overtime 🙂
I’m looking for all the help I can get right now. Do you have Aspergers or have a child with Aspergers? Were you/they able to get help in school easily? Are you/they on medication? What is your biggest struggle? What helped the most? Thanks so much!
I’ve tried a few different products over the last few years, too much to list. Some include Minoxidil, Nioxin, and a slew of other products. Most of the products had mediocre results and/or lots of side effects.
I had taken biotin in the past and it had worked to some degree, but I never had the results that I seen other people talk about, so I stopped taking it.
About a month ago, I was invited on Tomoson by 100 Naturals to try their Advanced Formula Biotin with 10,000mcg for free in exchange for my honest review. I thought it was a great opportunity to give biotin another try since the dose I had taken in the past was really low compared to this at only 1000mcg.
What I love about the Advanced Formula Biotin was that a bottle has 90 veggie capsules, which is a three month supply. The pills also contain no chemicals, preservatives or artificial ingredients. It is 100% pure.
A few days into taking it, I had a few breakouts on my face. I did a Google search and it seemed to be quite common with biotin and people had recommended to drink more water, which I did and the breakouts quickly went away.
About a week into taking it, I noticed that my hair was growing already. I had just coloured my hair the day before I started taking it, I and I was already seeing my roots show. I was pretty excited as I didn’t expect it to start working this fast, if at all.
So now at nearly four weeks into taking it, some of the changes I have experienced are:
- Continued hair growth – I’ve been seeing a major increase in length and I have some new hairs growing around my hairline. Actually hair has been growing more quickly and abundantly EVERYWHERE on my body. Considered yourself warned, lol.
- Less shedding – What a difference! I used to notice an alarming amount of hair shedding when in the shower and I couldn’t run my hands through my hair without it resulting in a handful of hair. I was actually quite scared of the amount I had been losing in the last year or so. Now when I shower or run my hands through my hair, there are just a few strands.
- Stronger nails – I have pretty weak nails that bend quite easily, but they are growing a lot faster and are a little thicker.
- Shinier hair – My hair seems to be a lot shinier since taking it. Not sure if that is just my imagination or if it is from the biotin.
The only issue I have with taking it, as mentioned earlier, is the immediate breakouts if I don’t stay on top of my water intake. I’ve been having to drink about a gallon a day to keep the biotin related breakouts away.
I am quite pleased with the Advanced Formula Biotin from 100 Naturals. I would recommend it to everyone who has issues with hair loss or thinning, weak nails, or even just for faster hair and nail growth. 100 Naturals has a 100% Satisfaction Guarantee so if you aren’t totally satisfied with the product for any reason, they will refund you.
To learn more about the product, check them out on Amazon.com at http://www.amazon.com/Pure-Biotin-000-MCG-Supplement/dp/B010DZPGUU
Disclaimer: I received this product for free or at a heavily discounted price in exchange for my honest review.
I had to write about this. It has been bothering me for some time now.
Social Anxiety is something that I have struggled with all my life. Ever since I can remember, I felt like I was being watched and judged by everyone. I feel like every flaw I have, every mistake I make, is the first thing people notice. Logically I know that isn’t the case, but my brain refuses to acknowledge this 🙂
I’ve always had trouble with speaking to strangers, maintaining eye-contact, etc. I have a major fear of not being able to cope or respond to all the silly social scenarios that I think may occur, all the “what ifs” that would leave me embarrassed or humiliated. This ties in a lot with my emetophobia as I have a fear of being sick in public. Since anxiety makes me feel nauseated, I often worry that I will be sick when I am anxious or nervous in a social situation. Oh this fun loop and tangling of fears!
As a result of all of this, I can appear to be pretty “standoffish”. People think I am snobby or bitchy because I am pretty quiet and usually don’t speak until spoken to. I avoid eye-contact. I fidget or have my arms crossed.
The same thing happens online, I find it hard to strike up a conversation or maintain one, so people think I am ignoring them or that I don’t like them. For example, I am a contester, and a major part of contesting requires you to share, tag friends, etc. I have a hard time with this. I don’t know why, but it does bother me. I’ve lost friends online and in “real life” as a result of not being social enough online or seeming like a bitch.
The truth is, I love socializing. I really do. I love people and I love interacting them them, but I just have all these “limitations”. When I get to know someone and feel comfortable around them, watch out! LOL.
Some of my self help methods have helped a lot so far. I seem to get a little better as time goes on. I keep challenging myself by facing some of my fears, stepping outside my comfort zone.
That’s my ramblings for now. I feel like I have so much more to say but don’t know how to say it. I wish it was easier for people to know that I am not purposely avoiding them or being snobby. I’m not a bitch, I swear! 🙂
Am I alone here? If you have social anxiety or are extremely shy, what is it that you are fearful of in social situations? Embarrassment or humiliation? What do you dread happening? I’d LOVE to know so I can get more insight to it.
Well, so far it has been a rough start to this month.
A few days ago I had formatted my computer to try and solve some hardware issues I had been having. After formatting I had downloaded an older version of software (not pirated) from a site that had it hosted on a file hosting site, before I had my virus scanner installed. I immediately downloaded my scanner, scanned and sure enough there was malware in it. I cleaned it up and never thought nothing of it after since my computer had been just formatted and was relatively clean as a result, I thought I was safe.
Until today. Chrome had crashed and my PC locked up while I was busy doing a few things. When I managed to get back in, I had noticed I had 1 tweet remaining in my account 😦 6 years of tweets…gone 😦
I had checked my authorized apps and there were a few tweet deletion apps there with UK ip addresses, and one from Germany.
I feel so sick about this. I had a lot of important tweets. My tweets for reviews, tweets to friends, etc. I like to enter contests too, so all my tweets for entries are gone.
I really hope this isn’t a preview of my month to come 😦
Update: It seems as though most tweets from August are forever gone and the older ones from before August are still showing in my tweet count and can be seen if I have a direct link to them but nothing prior to September 1st shows in my Twitter timeline. Everything has now been scanned and cleaned and password changed, so fingers crossed that it doesn’t happen again!